· in an exclusive interview with people, sandy gallagher reflects on her journey on the ultimatum season 3, her thoughts on ex nick tramontin s emotional volatility . · nick ’ s emotional volatility remained a central challenge. Despite starting their journey on good terms, it became clear how nick s insecurities affected their relationship. · sandy joined the ultimatum : Sandy recounted an off-camera incident where nick repeatedly called her one night, describing it as a unhealthy. · in an interview with today. com, the ultimatum season 3 star sandy gallagher unpacks her nick , j. r. Marry or move on season 3 with her partner, nick tramontin , after he gave her an ultimatum. Relationships and criticism of the show. · appearing on the vial files podcasts, nick tramontin and sandy gallagher spilled the tea in regards to the nature of their relationship prior to filming season 3 of the reality series. · sandy reveals she was so shocked by nick s hyper- emotional behavior on the ultimatum , she initially thought it was an act for the cameras. The two were a hot mess on the show. · nick and sandy left the ultimatum season three by going their separate ways, but they shared their biggest regrets while on the show.